anything to be "cool"

So last Friday my best mate won this prize - it was an hour promo thing with Smirnof vodka, free drinks and nibbles at her place from 7.30pm-8.30pm.
I checked my facebook on Friday morning and seen she had posted it on facebook, asking who wanted to come so of course I replied
"any room for me" she soon replied, that they already had the limit and there wasnt enough room for me

If it had been me, the first thing I would have done would be to call my best mates and TELL them not ask them that they are coming!!

I hadnt even been a possibility...

So Friday evening I emailed her to basically say that I was hurt If i had won something - anything - my first thought is to tell my best mates and make sure they are there to experience the winnings with me
To find out on facebook that you won something was weird but then to find out there isnt enough room for me cos it was first in first served really hurt.I would have instantly called you, jords, my mum, my sis and prob haley to tell them and invite them (even though mum, kel and haley wouldnt come) But to be bottom of your list and not even thought about really hurt.

She replied saying
You know what, I completely understand that - and yes I went the wrong way about it. . . I guess I found out and rang dan as soonas I found out and then I thought shit -I already have a friends birthday picnic on that night how am I going to work this. So me and Dan thought about it and decided basically that anyone that was near our way then heading to that birthday could come over (the thing I won is only for half an hour) then go straight to erica's. A few people txt me and same with Dan so we thought how are we going to do this - can only have a few people so we thought flatmates first since they live here. . . so thats me Dan James and hayden then we had enought room for 2 or 3 others. . . Me and Dan thought rather than ask people as we couldn't decide. . . we'd just put on facebook and see who responded first. . . I know you don't like hanging out west or much like many of the people from there so I just didn't txt anyone and just waited to see who was keen . . . I don't want to ask you and then you feel like you have to come west. . . as you have told me before you have felt like you have had to do things. . . I'd rather you make your own choice. I'm sorry it worked out this way. . . if you would like to come then please come as I am sure James or someone else won't make it last minute anyway, e are going out west as soon as it is finished though so as long as you are happy to come along? you were nowhere near the bottom of my list or not thought about. . . I am really sorry I hurt your feelings.

It just sounds like an excuse basically.

She had to come into work on Monday for an interview - for a job I GOT HER! and we didnt really talk then, and I havent really spoken to her since.

She txt me on sunday to ask if i was avoiding her cos i hadnt txt her to wish her good luck with her work do, and i just said i am kinda cos i was hurt and didnt really know what to say to her!

And thats the story!