FAULTS

So i sent out an email to all my close friends asking what they thought my faults were
here are some replies...

Teresa said:

I don't really think you have any faults.... one thing I do notice though is that Christie isn't really a good influence on you. You know as well as I do that I love Christie, but she is very dramatic and has a way of getting you to do things that you probably wouldn't do if she didn't sort of coerce you into doing it.
When you weren't friends with her you were a very different person to how you are when you are friends with her. Like you're not a bad person but you tend to get dragged into her melodramatic life a bit too much. I know that it's because you care about her, but she sort of just gets you to do things that aren't really you - or maybe that you wouldn't do if it was just me and you hanging out, or you and Kylie or something??
I don't really like Shelz, and I think that's because she's sort of in your face and the same kinda thing, she likes you to do what she wants.
YOU need to be a leader, you are a very strong person - whether you believe that or not.

You are a really good person and I wouldn't change anything about you! You love and care about all your friends and your family and you are always willing to put others needs ahead of your own. You just need to love yourself a little bit more than you do! You're a wonderful person and anyone who has you in their life is lucky to have you!!!! Don't let anyone ever tell you any different, and if they try to tell them to take it up with me coz I'm gonna knock their block off :)

Haley said:

basically that im too nice and trusting and let people walk all over me, i need to stand up for myself

Shalz said:

I found this email in my junk folder. What you need to stop doing is what you're doing below. Just need to chill out and relax and not take everything so seriously and just give people space and time to get back to you themselves. You just get pretty full on sometimes and you take things so freaking personally. It's a real big put off. I mean honestly I feel like im in a relationship with you and you've turned into the annoying girlfriend that I want to break up with. You asked for honesty so I'm giving it to you.

Basically, I never have any dramas with any of my other chick mates, if I say what I want it's sweet coz everyone understands you have to do things for yourself and its no big deal and it's the same vice versa with them. Because we are all grown ups now and not in high school anymore.

I'm sorry to say it but now I even understand how Christie used to feel and would be scared of telling you the truth coz of how you would react coz she didn't want to do something that you did. So yeah take what you want from this but I just don't need anymore drama in my life. Things are finally going right for me and I'm making decisions and doing things for myself and finally learning to say no and I just don't need any extra stress.