ABUSE????

Question: is this what is clasified as abuse??

When i was about age 9 to 11 i used to stay over at my best mates dad's house with her. He used to make us bath together and would stand there and watch and undress us and dry us and dress us when we were done. He would always want us to do cat walk shows - but only in our undies - even when we started developing and got uncomfortable he wouldnt let us do it with a bra on.

I remember once we watched this dvd of people having sex, he was drunk and reckoned we needed to learn about it and made us sit under the blanket with us with his hand on our legs or tummys.

He was always kind of weird and would touch us whenever he could. walk in when we were getting dressed and try and help us get dressed.

im not sure. I have never really talked about it cos i never thought much of it. and when i told my sis she almost cried. I jus said that he was like that.

Is it normal?
it kinda makes me wonder why i hate having boys touch me now. and look at me. But i have never really thought too much about it cos it was so long ago!!